[menscouncil] Research into potential sites for an offsite Retreat

Tom Chettleburgh tchettleburgh at gmail.com
Fri Jan 20 18:00:08 CST 2023


John,  Thank you.  This is a great breakdown of these 4 camps.  I agree
with you that the best two options are Copneconic and Storer.  I also like
the idea of paying extra for some of the activities like canoeing/kayaking.

With Copneconic, I wonder if the men will have an issue with the weekend,
being a Michigan home football game, and the cost--we would probably want
to charge $170 like the women.  And this would not include a t-shirt.  I am
fine with missing the game, but others may not be--maybe we can arrange the
day so we have a lengthy free time during the game.

If the game limits attendance, Storer that last weekend in September may be
our better option.

Tom

On Fri, Jan 20, 2023 at 11:40 AM John Russell <jrtreetown at gmail.com> wrote:

> Tom, Jim, Bob, (other members of Men's Council included as FYI, but input
> is welcome):
>     As I committed in our Men's Council meeting on Saturday, I contacted
> some camps about a possible Men's offsite retreat in the Fall. I contacted
> four camps - Camp Copneconic (where the UU women held a retreat this past
> fall), Camp Storer (a "Y" camp similar to Camp Copneconic), Camp Talahi (a
> camp used for Men's retreats up until about 10 years ago, when they
> temporarily closed but are now open again), and Earthwell Retreat & Nature
> Sanctuary.  All are within an hour's drive from A2. What I learned from my
> calls and other research:
>
>
>    1. Earthwell Retreat <https://www.earthwellretreat.com>
>    - Jim Schaefer suggested looking into this camp, located outside
>       Manchester
>       - This camp offers "personal and group retreat experiences that
>       promote harmony with nature, self, and others
>       - 18 beds total across several cabins (and some of the beds are
>       upper bunks), 30-person indoor space with an outdoor tent for larger
>       gatherings, etc.
>       - This could be a great space for a quiet retreat for a smaller
>       group. They offer yoga, meditation, wellness themes. Food is catered, all
>       vegetarian, and focused on farm-to-table.
>       - We could rent the entire camp, but unfortunately it's *not large
>       enough and doesn't have lodging nor meeting facilities that we need*
>       .
>    2. Camp Talahi <http://camptalahi.org/location/>
>    - Sleeping Space: 2 dorms, 22 bunk beds in each, plus three 500-600 sq
>       ft cabins with 4 beds each. As far as space, I believe we need to make an
>       assumption that most men won't want to climb up to a top bunk. That said,
>       the 2 dorms would accommodate 44 of us, with the cabins holding the rest.
>       The cabins have no bathrooms.
>       - Breakout space: The main lodge has a meeting area indoors, plus a
>       front porch and a side porch, so breakout meeting space is available.
>       - Food: The camp has a commercial kitchen but it's not staffed.
>       They have an outside cook who can come in and cook for us.  The current
>       owners closed on the property in June, construction/repairs are ongoing.
>       - Friday night potluck: not a problem.
>       - Tents, RVs not a problem because we have the whole camp.
>       - We could rent the entire camp at a cost of about $3,000-$3500.
>       ($60- about $70/person ) This does not include food.
>       - Dates Availability: The last two weekends in September are
>       booked. Sept 15-17 is available.
>       - Positives: We've held retreats there before. We can rent the
>       entire space so we have privacy as with past camps used for retreats.
>       - Negatives: The big dorm sleeping arrangements, repairs and
>       updates in progress.
>    3. YMCA Storer Camp <https://www.ymcastorercamps.org>
>    - Used for Men's retreats about 20 years ago.
>       - Sleeping Space: Four "Modern Lodges" with each lodge having four
>       units that sleep 7 people each (not using top bunks), for a total of
>       28/lodge. We could use 2 lodges and cutoff registration at 56, or I could
>       look into an additional lodge and/or a couple cabins. There are also
>       "Rustic Cabins" but those have no bathrooms so guys would have to walk to a
>       modern lodge to use the bathrooms.
>       - Breakout space: Each modern lodge has a common room with couches,
>       coffee tables and a fireplace. We could also use areas in the dining hall
>       or another large space (Doc Miller Learning Center)
>       - Food: Camp provides 4 meals (3 Saturday plus Sunday breakfast).
>       Dietary restrictions can be accommodated (Vegetarian, Vegan, etc.).
>       - Friday potluck: We could set up on Friday evening and do our
>       Friday potluck in the Doc Miller Learning Center.
>       - Tents, RVs: Per my contact he doesn't see a problem, but he said
>       he had to look into it and get back to me. Based on what Camp Copneconic
>       told me, I will say it's probably a No.
>       - This camp provides activities at an extra cost if we're
>       interested.
>       - Dates Availibility:  Right now, the last 2 weekends in Sept are
>       available.
>       - Positives: I believe this camp has the space, food, availability
>       and features we need. My contact was very willing to work with us.
>       - Negatives: Other groups could also be at the camp at the same
>       time. The Dining Hall has 2 sides, so we could be somewhat separated, and
>       we'd have separate space for sleeping, breakouts, etc. No tents, RVs.
>       - Cost TBD. I would expect it will be similar to Camp Copneconic,
>       but if we're sincerely interested in this camp, I can nail it down more.
>    4. YMCA Camp Copneconic <https://www.campcopneconic.org>
>    - The location scoped out by Jim Schaefer and Rick Witten prior to the
>       pandemic, and actually used for about 50 UU Women for a retreat in Fall of
>       2022.
>       - I spoke with Judi Lintott, organizer for the women's 2022
>       retreat, who was very helpful with providing information.
>       - Sleeping space: The UU women used the Conference Center, which
>       has 20 separate rooms, each with a couple beds, plus a couple smaller
>       lodges. This is a large camp, and there are multiple lodges, so it will not
>       be a problem to arrange sleeping space.
>       - Breakout space: Dining Hall, Conference Center, a couple other
>       lodges. No problem.
>       - Food: The camp has it's own catering service. Dietary
>       restrictions will be accommodated. 4 meals provided (Sat breakfast, lunch,
>       dinner and Sunday breakfast)
>       - Friday Potluck: The women did this on Friday evening. The camp
>       provided silverware and utensils. We have to commit to no peanuts and no
>       tree nuts.
>       - This camp provides activities at an extra cost if we're
>       interested (Archery, ziplines, climbing wall, kayaks/canoes). Small
>       additional costs.
>       - No tent camping nor RVs. The camp contact (Zack) said they don't
>       have a license for tents and RVs, so they can't do it.
>       - The UU women did a fair amount of COVID precautions and actions -
>       e.g. everyone had to provide a negative self-test just before the retreat,
>       masks during breakouts indoors. We could also do this, or some subset based
>       on the COVID climate next fall.
>       - Availability: Weekend of Sept 22-24 is available. The following
>       weekend is not.
>       - Cost: $150/person to the camp. The UU women added $20/person for
>       incidentals.
>       - Positives: Tried and tested recently by the UU women. Visited and
>       actually booked for the men in the past (but cancelled due to COVID). This
>       camp has the space, food, availability and features we need. We can
>       separate our group into small groups for sleeping. The contact was very
>       willing to work with us.
>       - Negatives: Although the women had the camp to themselves, we may
>       not be alone, per the contact.  The Dining Hall has 2 sides, so we could be
>       somewhat separated, and we'd have separate space for sleeping, breakouts,
>       etc. No tents, RVs.
>
> *My thoughts:*
>
>    - My first choice/recommendation is Camp Copneconic. 2nd choice would
>    be Camp Storer.
>    - Talahi is too limited on sleeping accommodations. Also in a state of
>    remodeling/construction.
>    - Note: All of these places don't allow alcohol, so we absolutely
>    can't be openly drinking.
>    - We're "penciled in" for both Copneconic and Storer. I'll cancel one
>    when we have a decision.
>
> Let me know what you think.
> - John
>
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