[menscouncil] Research into potential sites for an offsite Retreat
Russell, John
jrussell at reinhartrealtors.com
Sat Jan 21 13:01:47 CST 2023
Hmmmm. A couple things.....
- As a different interpretation of the initial data, it appears to me,
from totalling the Yes vs No counts, that there were 26 responses and 16
were Yes, which means over 60% responded Yes to attending an offsite
retreat.
- In hindsight (which is always 20/20), we should have waited to send
out the survey until I had more info. COVID is still "top of mind" for a
lot of people. Some important points that I learned from the practices at
the women's retreat that would address COVID concerns: With one exception
of 5 friends in one sleeping room, the women had no more than 2 in a room
for their Copneconic Retreat. Also, everyone had to provide a negative
self-test just before the retreat, and they required wearing masks when
in the indoor large spaces unless they were eating or drinking. For
breakouts, the breakout groups could decide for themselves if they wanted
to wear masks. Masks were not required outdoors.
Camp Copneconic gave us 2 weeks to sign a contract. I'd like to propose we
canvass the men again, stating that:
1. We'd have no more than 2 in a sleeping room, unless some men
voluntarily wanted to add another.
2. COVID self-tests before arriving, which are provided to the Retreat
organizers.
3. Masks required when in large indoor group activities, except during
meals.
4. Masks not required in indoor breakouts *if the entire group* is
comfortable without masks.
5. Masks not required outdoors.
6. No tent or RV camping allowed due to camp licensing restrictions.
That said, if the consensus of the Men's Council is that we do a day-long
gathering at the Church and not an offsite Retreat, that's fine. I'll
pursue no further and there's no need to send another survey. Please, all
men on the Council, chime in. Thank you,
- John
On Fri, Jan 20, 2023 at 7:45 PM Jim Schaefer <jim at jvscontrols.com> wrote:
> Nice summary on retreat locations John, thanks !
>
> Thought I would give results of the 28 survey responses so far. (BTW.. in
> retrospect I think question 2 is not very useful)
>
> My interpretation is that people are slightly in favor of off-site, but
> only 16 people said yes. In my mind 16 people is not enough momentum to
> change to off-site. I think if it were off site there are more people that
> would not come just because it was off site. Whereas if we held it at the
> church our numbers would probably be higher. At the church we probably end
> up serving more people.
>
> Jim
>
>
> Question 1:
>
> Hypothetically, if you were asked to sign up for the men's retreat today
> and it cost $160 for two nights at a camp no more than 1 hour away from the
> church would you sign up ? (Assume sleeping accommodations were 4 to 7
> people in a room and there was no tent camping available. Trailer or RV OK)
>
> 10 no
> 16 yes
>
> Question 2
>
> Would you attend if the only difference to the previous hypothetical
> question was that tent camping was allowed ?
> 10 no
> 15 yes
>
> QUestion 3
>
> The men's council cannot organize an off-site retreat without more help.
> Would you be willing to meet monthly and spend at least 10 hours in total
> making the off-site retreat happen ?
>
> 14 no
> 12 yes
>
>
> Comments:
> Love it!
> Since it's been over 3 years since we did an off-site retreat, and some
> men have never attended an offsite retreat, I'd like to put some context
> into the intro, such as "Some have expressed a desire to hold a Friday
> evening to Sunday morning retreat offsite at a summer camp location like we
> did for many years." Also, in the retreat location question, I believe it
> will be helpful to also add context to the type of room men will sleep in
> such as "Assume sleeping accommodations were 4 to 7 people in a cabin-style
> room and there was no tent camping available. Trailer or RV OK"
> I greatly preferred the on-site at the UUAA building format. I do not
> think I would do a multi-day off-site event, at least not this next time
> around.
> I would be glad to contribute to developing an agenda, but would leave the
> logistics to someone else. Although I may not attend the Appleton Men's
> Retreat next weekend as we may become grandparents this week, I have been
> involved in that agenda which we entitled "When is enough, enough?" which
> is addressing finances, social and work relationships, and self esteem.
> John Burke
> The coronavirus is still with us.
> I am happy with the local retreats and would prefer that we continue to
> hold them at the church.
> I thought the one-day format at the church was excellent
> 10/1 is my anniversary = often i can’t make the normal retreat weekend.
> 2023 =special, so extended blackout-dates. I would still help, but i am not
> available after 09/18 - 10/12
> I would probably come one night or the other and stay in my van. I do like
> the overnight component. I also enjoyed when we took time to make art or
> crafts that I otherwise find it hard to get started on.
> I can do specific tasks and attend occasional meetings, but I'd rather not
> meet regularly
> I will be happy to help plan future offsite retreats when I'm off the
> board in a year and a half.
> Sorry for not helping, but my slate is full right now.
> I would pay extra to be in a room with less than 4 people. 7 people in a
> room seems like a lot.
> It's hard to answer the hypothetical. I plan to attend the retreat in
> whatever form it happens. IF it's at UUAA again, I would strongly suggest
> getting small group time started on Friday evening to allow more time for
> focus and connection. I do not have time to join the planning and prep.
> Thank you.
> To be honest, I am still hesitant about being in larger in-person
> gatherings. So while I'd love to spend this kind of extended time with
> other UUAA men, I would say I am more of a "Maybe" at this point.
>
> On 1/20/2023 7:00 PM, Tom Chettleburgh wrote:
>
> John, Thank you. This is a great breakdown of these 4 camps. I agree
> with you that the best two options are Copneconic and Storer. I also like
> the idea of paying extra for some of the activities like canoeing/kayaking.
>
> With Copneconic, I wonder if the men will have an issue with the weekend,
> being a Michigan home football game, and the cost--we would probably want
> to charge $170 like the women. And this would not include a t-shirt. I am
> fine with missing the game, but others may not be--maybe we can arrange the
> day so we have a lengthy free time during the game.
>
> If the game limits attendance, Storer that last weekend in September may
> be our better option.
>
> Tom
>
> On Fri, Jan 20, 2023 at 11:40 AM John Russell <jrtreetown at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> Tom, Jim, Bob, (other members of Men's Council included as FYI, but input
>> is welcome):
>> As I committed in our Men's Council meeting on Saturday, I contacted
>> some camps about a possible Men's offsite retreat in the Fall. I contacted
>> four camps - Camp Copneconic (where the UU women held a retreat this past
>> fall), Camp Storer (a "Y" camp similar to Camp Copneconic), Camp Talahi (a
>> camp used for Men's retreats up until about 10 years ago, when they
>> temporarily closed but are now open again), and Earthwell Retreat & Nature
>> Sanctuary. All are within an hour's drive from A2. What I learned from my
>> calls and other research:
>>
>>
>> 1. Earthwell Retreat <https://www.earthwellretreat.com>
>> - Jim Schaefer suggested looking into this camp, located outside
>> Manchester
>> - This camp offers "personal and group retreat experiences that
>> promote harmony with nature, self, and others
>> - 18 beds total across several cabins (and some of the beds are
>> upper bunks), 30-person indoor space with an outdoor tent for larger
>> gatherings, etc.
>> - This could be a great space for a quiet retreat for a smaller
>> group. They offer yoga, meditation, wellness themes. Food is catered, all
>> vegetarian, and focused on farm-to-table.
>> - We could rent the entire camp, but unfortunately it's *not large
>> enough and doesn't have lodging nor meeting facilities that we need*
>> .
>> 2. Camp Talahi <http://camptalahi.org/location/>
>> - Sleeping Space: 2 dorms, 22 bunk beds in each, plus three 500-600
>> sq ft cabins with 4 beds each. As far as space, I believe we need to make
>> an assumption that most men won't want to climb up to a top bunk. That
>> said, the 2 dorms would accommodate 44 of us, with the cabins holding the
>> rest. The cabins have no bathrooms.
>> - Breakout space: The main lodge has a meeting area indoors, plus
>> a front porch and a side porch, so breakout meeting space is available.
>> - Food: The camp has a commercial kitchen but it's not staffed.
>> They have an outside cook who can come in and cook for us. The current
>> owners closed on the property in June, construction/repairs are ongoing.
>> - Friday night potluck: not a problem.
>> - Tents, RVs not a problem because we have the whole camp.
>> - We could rent the entire camp at a cost of about $3,000-$3500.
>> ($60- about $70/person ) This does not include food.
>> - Dates Availability: The last two weekends in September are
>> booked. Sept 15-17 is available.
>> - Positives: We've held retreats there before. We can rent the
>> entire space so we have privacy as with past camps used for retreats.
>> - Negatives: The big dorm sleeping arrangements, repairs and
>> updates in progress.
>> 3. YMCA Storer Camp <https://www.ymcastorercamps.org>
>> - Used for Men's retreats about 20 years ago.
>> - Sleeping Space: Four "Modern Lodges" with each lodge having four
>> units that sleep 7 people each (not using top bunks), for a total of
>> 28/lodge. We could use 2 lodges and cutoff registration at 56, or I could
>> look into an additional lodge and/or a couple cabins. There are also
>> "Rustic Cabins" but those have no bathrooms so guys would have to walk to a
>> modern lodge to use the bathrooms.
>> - Breakout space: Each modern lodge has a common room with
>> couches, coffee tables and a fireplace. We could also use areas in the
>> dining hall or another large space (Doc Miller Learning Center)
>> - Food: Camp provides 4 meals (3 Saturday plus Sunday breakfast).
>> Dietary restrictions can be accommodated (Vegetarian, Vegan, etc.).
>> - Friday potluck: We could set up on Friday evening and do our
>> Friday potluck in the Doc Miller Learning Center.
>> - Tents, RVs: Per my contact he doesn't see a problem, but he said
>> he had to look into it and get back to me. Based on what Camp Copneconic
>> told me, I will say it's probably a No.
>> - This camp provides activities at an extra cost if we're
>> interested.
>> - Dates Availibility: Right now, the last 2 weekends in Sept are
>> available.
>> - Positives: I believe this camp has the space, food, availability
>> and features we need. My contact was very willing to work with us.
>> - Negatives: Other groups could also be at the camp at the same
>> time. The Dining Hall has 2 sides, so we could be somewhat separated, and
>> we'd have separate space for sleeping, breakouts, etc. No tents, RVs.
>> - Cost TBD. I would expect it will be similar to Camp Copneconic,
>> but if we're sincerely interested in this camp, I can nail it down more.
>> 4. YMCA Camp Copneconic <https://www.campcopneconic.org>
>> - The location scoped out by Jim Schaefer and Rick Witten prior to
>> the pandemic, and actually used for about 50 UU Women for a retreat in Fall
>> of 2022.
>> - I spoke with Judi Lintott, organizer for the women's 2022
>> retreat, who was very helpful with providing information.
>> - Sleeping space: The UU women used the Conference Center, which
>> has 20 separate rooms, each with a couple beds, plus a couple smaller
>> lodges. This is a large camp, and there are multiple lodges, so it will not
>> be a problem to arrange sleeping space.
>> - Breakout space: Dining Hall, Conference Center, a couple other
>> lodges. No problem.
>> - Food: The camp has it's own catering service. Dietary
>> restrictions will be accommodated. 4 meals provided (Sat breakfast, lunch,
>> dinner and Sunday breakfast)
>> - Friday Potluck: The women did this on Friday evening. The camp
>> provided silverware and utensils. We have to commit to no peanuts and no
>> tree nuts.
>> - This camp provides activities at an extra cost if we're
>> interested (Archery, ziplines, climbing wall, kayaks/canoes). Small
>> additional costs.
>> - No tent camping nor RVs. The camp contact (Zack) said they don't
>> have a license for tents and RVs, so they can't do it.
>> - The UU women did a fair amount of COVID precautions and actions
>> - e.g. everyone had to provide a negative self-test just before the
>> retreat, masks during breakouts indoors. We could also do this, or some
>> subset based on the COVID climate next fall.
>> - Availability: Weekend of Sept 22-24 is available. The following
>> weekend is not.
>> - Cost: $150/person to the camp. The UU women added $20/person for
>> incidentals.
>> - Positives: Tried and tested recently by the UU women. Visited
>> and actually booked for the men in the past (but cancelled due to COVID).
>> This camp has the space, food, availability and features we need. We can
>> separate our group into small groups for sleeping. The contact was very
>> willing to work with us.
>> - Negatives: Although the women had the camp to themselves, we may
>> not be alone, per the contact. The Dining Hall has 2 sides, so we could be
>> somewhat separated, and we'd have separate space for sleeping, breakouts,
>> etc. No tents, RVs.
>>
>> *My thoughts:*
>>
>> - My first choice/recommendation is Camp Copneconic. 2nd choice would
>> be Camp Storer.
>> - Talahi is too limited on sleeping accommodations. Also in a state
>> of remodeling/construction.
>> - Note: All of these places don't allow alcohol, so we absolutely
>> can't be openly drinking.
>> - We're "penciled in" for both Copneconic and Storer. I'll cancel one
>> when we have a decision.
>>
>> Let me know what you think.
>> - John
>>
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